Wanting To Be Wanted

What does it mean when we want be wanted?

Is it it the same as needing to be needed?

Or is it longing to be loved?

Why do us humans (especially women) need to be wanted, cherished, and loved?

What is in us that drives us to madness when we do not get what we want or feel we need emotinaly, or physicaly?

That need does not go away no matter how hard we try to ignore it.

We can suppress our emotions so we don't feel the need so much, but in the end only hurt ourselves by doing so.

There is something about the attention a man gives a woman, that is different than any other kind of attention she might get from others.

He can so easliy make her feel so special by the things he says. He can make her heart beat faster just by hearing his voice, or reading his words in a message or e-mail.

He can make her feel as light as air just to let her know he wants to kiss her, or carass her face.
No matter if it is a virtual kiss or not, the woman feels wanted, and cherished.

Do men want to be wanted as well?

Do men ever want that emotional connection that only comes from the heart?

Do men feel more than lust when it comes to making a woman feel wanted?
Can he feel more?

When there hasn't been a physical meeting yet, for a woman the emotional connection to the man she cares about, during cybersex is the closest she will feel to him until they can be together in perosn. This only happens for a women when she is already deeply connected to the man she cares about.

It doesn't matter if he feels as strongly towards her as she does towards him. During that time their feelings and emotions are equal. They feel a connection that they don't get at any other time. That place that wants to be cherished, loved, and wanted is filled. It is a give and take of equal purportions in emotions, lust, and physical satisfaction for them both.

I wish I knew if there was another way to feed that need to be wanted. So far I haven't figured that one out yet. I don't no if there really is another way, online to fill that emotinal void, with the semblance of love.

If anyone knows of another way, please e-mail me using the e-mail address in my profile! Or leave a comment here or in the neoboard.

I need that void filled even if it is only the semblance of love. It is the closest I have until the the time comes we can meet in person, and findout if it can be real.

Here is a Poem I wrote last year that fits today's blog post. Click on the link below or on the title of todays blog post.
Desires In Loneliness

May Love Find Your Heart -
Countess